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Just call me Calli.I like Jamie Bell and Cillian Murphy. I like Friday Night Lights and Desperate Housewives and Dead Like Me. I like writing, roleplaying in writing communities. I like reading: Harry Potter, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, House of Leaves. I love House of Leaves. I like Adam Pascal in Rent. I like messing around in photoshop. I'm not too fantastic, but I like it. I like chemistry. I love Audrey Hepburn.
I dislike poetry. I dislike physics.
I am indifferent about Twilight.
I know nothing about romantic relationships. But I have friends. I have family. And I like them.
If that helps at all, there it is. If not, there it is.
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Okay well lets say his names bob,well i just broke up with bob like two weeks ago because he was flirting with this girl saying i hit that and hey sexy and stuff.Well anyways bob was talking to me about how his going to change and stuff and i was also talking to his bestfriends and they said that his been acting like a dick. Then when i seen him for the fourth of july for the first time sence then he was drunk really badly. Then awhile i was talking to bobs friends and i asked them why his been acting like that they said because he wont let go of me. Then when I tried to talk to him on myspace today he would barely talk to me.My two closest friends said that they think if he gets drunk that bad again he might
kill his self.
Okay, I don't know exactly what you're asking, but I'm guessing you're wondering what to do about this. Let's just go with this first, no matter what Bob does, this is not your fault. Bob was betraying your trust and you had every right to break up with him. Don't just go back out with him because you don't want him to kill himself, you're just hurting yourself and him even more.
Now, as for Bob, the only thing you can do is talk to him. Tell him that you've noticed he's been upset, and you don't want him to do anything stupid over you. Tell him, if this is really bad then he should get help. Even help him find good help if you feel you should. Tell his parents too, so they can keep tabs on his drinking and depression.
But remember, no matter what heppens, it really isn't you're fault.
-Calli
(Rating: 5) Thank you this is helping me out alot, but now
his saying his going crazy because theres othere
stuff going on with is life.