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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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advice

so im 13
and this dude is 15
we've been talking for a while now (few months)
and he asked me out last saturday over text.
i can never tell if someones serious over text so...
i said i wasnt sure.
and he hasnt talked about it since.
did he take it as a no?
(hes not the shy type at all.. so he'll basically talk about ANYTHING ad EVERYTHING)

so please help
guys have never been this confusing to me before.

He probably took it more as a no, than a yes. And what you're feeling is TOTALLY normal, many girls feel that way, and what I usually do is, I tell them I'd like them to ask me out in person, than over texts because it feels more serious and real. Don't say it is because you don't know if HE is serious or not, he could take it the wrong way, like you don't trust him. Be open, since he is the open type. And bring it up when you see him, or whenever he texts.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot. :)
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