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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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i'm having a lousy summer as usual. during school, i've been planning how this summer would be different and life channging, but nothing has happened in the past two weeks, i'm scared summer will jus fly by and everything will be the same. the past two weeks i jus been home, mostly by myself, and i barely get out. i jus eat, get on the computer, watch tv, and sleep. yeh, i sound like a big looser, and i guess you could say i am. i didn't choose my situation, and i don't have many friends, and no close friends, i didn't talk to alot of people due to depression. im 16/f, i can drive. ugh, what do i do, i'm not even motivated. i want to have fun, go to a beach, party, make some friends, hook up with a guy, you know w/e is fun. how do i do this, i have no connections with people, where do i go, what do i do? this summer has got to be fun.
i know this isn't asked very well, jus tell me what you're doing this summer and how you did it.
any help is appreciated :D
Do you have a neighborhood pool? Go down to that. You'll definitely meet some new people there. And if you don't feel like swimming, just lay out or something.
You said you have SOME friends. So, call/text/IM/e-mail them and ask if they want to get a group together (they can bring their other friends or something) and go see a movie.
Is there a beach anywhere nearby that you could just get a friend and go down to? Do that. The two of you will definitely make some new friends there.
Don't worry about just calling a friend out of the blue and them thinking it's weird or whatever - chances are, they're probably just as bored as you are. ;)
Good luck!
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