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Heyy You c: the name is Jessie. I'm a cheerleader and a singer =] i laugh at anything pretty much, and it usually makes other people laugh. i am very optomistic unless its my own situations. photography is my love and i would be completely lost without my camera. making people happy is what i strive for. I care too much about what other people think, but i'm learning. ive been giving advice for a crazy amount of years and continue to do so. i've never been rated less than a 4. so.. i guess i'm pretty good. i tend to blabber on about absolutly nothing, and i'm pretty sure i've done that alreday so i'll stop

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There is this girl, sammy, last summer she got with this guy i really really liked. i didnt know her at first, but after she realized that me and her boyfriend had a really long and meaningful history she got extremely jealous. She would often wait until i was walking by and kiss her boyfriend, the one i liked, or tell him how much she loved him and how glad she was that they were together, just so i could hear. and i knew this because she would give me a very smug smile after she saw the look of hurt on my face.

..well sammy and her boyfriend broke up and i had finally moved on from him. two weeks ago i was out on a date and she happened to see us. then just two days ago i found out that the guy i had been on the date with is now her boyfriend. I am not really mad at the boy, i mean yea it sucks that he blew me off for her... but hey thats life. but i can't help but thinking that this is a really bad coincidence?

any opinions... is this just a crazy coincidence? or is this girl out to get me and hurt me whatever way possible. i just dont want this guy to get hurt if she is just dating him to get back at me!

soe girls can be total witches in cases like these.
think about it, the only reason she'd be doing this to you is because she's jealous of you.
clearly!
hey, she might like the guy you were on a date with and it may have been a coincidence.
but for now, have a little bit of an open eye and dont let her get to you.
if she flirts with a guy that you like, ignore her.
if you look hurt, thats exactly what she wants.. you to be hurt.
so dont let her see you hurt.
make her think nothing she does bothers you and eventually, she'll give up.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much!
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