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i know that breaking up with someone you love is hard. especially for me.
well let me tell you about my relationship.
his name is josh. hes smart, sweet, and sensitive.
we been together for about 2 months or so. Although its been a very short relationship, i think that its time to say goodbye.
Josh moved to california about a month ago, and he is not coming back to hawaii for another year or so. and there is no way whatsoever that i can go to california due to expence.
the question is, i still like josh, but i dont want to have this kind of relationship. Everyone tells me that the worst way to break up with someone is in email, text, letter, or phone. but how else am i going to breakup with him. There is no way we can see each other, and i am NOT going to wait a year.
so what i am asking you is... How do i do this the nicest way possible??? I cant see him, and i want to break up. but yet, i still love him. So how would i break up with him? tips are welcomed:)
[just to let you know, josh is very sensitive, and i dont wanna hurt him]
i thank you in advance. you have no idea how much you would help me:)
thanks.
sorry this is long.... kristy:)
fisrt let me say if you love him as you say then you would try and wait!
now breaking up is not so hard but you say he is sensitive so i would say call him. now during this conversation you tell him that you dont think the distance between the two of you is good for a relationship. now then you write the letter telling him everything this way he would know you care and know you want to be with him but distance is not good.
im sure he will understand. try asking him for a break in stead if breaking up. this mean yall can see other people untill you to are togather again. dont date other people cause then your feelings will be in a blits.
hope i helped
(Rating: 5) wow. guess your right. thanks!