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Q: Which is better, to stick with a relationship that has so many up and down moments due to the sheer differences in personality, religion, and God knows what else, simply because you don't want to look back and say you didn't give it your all, or to stop feeling trapped by a relationship that increasingly seems to be falling apart.

20's, male.
In my honest opinion, it's better to lose the relationship. If it's not making you happy now, why would it later? You can't really stop a relationship that's falling apart, unless a miracle happens, of course. And if you believe in that miracle, then stay. But if the relationship is ruining your mood, causing you stress and you don't even love the person that much..then get rid of it. That's my say in this.
Good luck.

The thing is, have you ever seen Clerks? There's that moment where he realizes that the girl he's having problems with is actually a lot better for him than he thought, and lost her because he didn't realize it sooner. I don't want to end up pulling that because I quit early.

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I'm Annie and I'm 16. I know a lot about being stressed and anxious and all those things teens go through. I also know a great deal about relationships. I just went through a breakup and I know what guys can be capable of doing. I'd love to help. ;]

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