Hey i'm Mallory,
I've been through a lot and i dont judge because of it.
Yeah i like to give advice, but isnt that why we're on this site?
I am myself, and i get looked down because of it, but so what? I'm not going to hide who i am.
I am not dating until college.
I dont respect cheaters.
i dont take life so seriously. Come on. We only live like this once. enjoy it =]
And toilet paper is better than sliced bread :D
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So there's this guy (there always is..) who I half-like. (I say "half" because I have all the symptoms of liking him.. but can't possibly actually do so). Either way: He really is the sweetest guy and soo much fun to be around!
Now to the problem: He likes me. Not HALF-likes me. He really likes me. I've been through this before (hundreds of times) so I know what my options are:
A: Keep spending time with him, watch him fall for me, then reject him and break his heart when he asks me out.. and lose him forever.
B: Stop spending time with him to ultimately spare his feelings.. and lose him forever.
C: Tell him the truth, slowly see how things change between us and get awkward.. and lose him forever.
D: Say yes when he asks me out, because after all I do "half-like" him.. (well, I guess this is the option I've never been brave enough to try with any of the other guys.. but I'm pretty sure it follows the pattern and ends with..) .. and lose him forever.
You wanna make my day by adding a fifth option?
Thank you! :) (link)
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So you half-like this guy. Keep spending time with him. Become his best friend before anything else, let him know that too. You dont want to hurt him in any way, so becoming best friends first would help you both out.
ANd if you really dont want to hurt him, just stay friends and explain why.
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That's smart! Telling him I'd like to be his best friend before anything else would give me more time to think and make up my mind. Thank you! :)
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