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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

Got some love life issues? Need a quick self-esteem boost? Confused in a relationship? .... Just ask Venzuela!

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Okay so I've been dating this guy for 9 months. Its been pretty bumpy && up && down. But, just last week we saw eachother everyday && it was great. Then I got supper busy recently so hes been hanging out with his friends alot, && thats all cool with me but that isnt my problem. He just started playing video games && I cant get him away from them. I've talked to him once in a week I call && text him but i only get short answers and conversations and we bicker alot. It frusrates me so I cant stand to stay on the phone && text(i dont like eithier in the first place) Last time we talked we got in a huge fight. He made me feel unimportant and said some things I think he should regret. But I cant help but think about it. What should i do?? He always goes through these stages until it comes down to breaking up then he changes for a week or two && goes straight back to it. I dont think I really deserve it. But Im lost && confused with what to do. Please help me

I personally feel that breaks in relationships aren't always the answer because it is very unlikely the problems you had in the first place wont return and affect your relationhip again.
If he can't act like an adult and be stable, make you feel unimportant and not a big deal, because everyone is a big deal, and if he doesn't see it or treat you like you are one, then he really isn't worth your time. There are guys out there that will treat you like you're a true diamond and that is what you should be heading to. Staying with this guy that has iregular emotions, don't bring you ANY closer to the one that will! Playing vidoe games shows how immature he is and not ready for a relationship, or any responsibility, which a relationship is!
If you can't talk to him and share your feelings then what is the point of having a relationship?! A relationship is where the 2 people can and will, with NO problems whatsoever, communicate and let each other know about how they feel. So if he can't talk then let him walk! Don't waste your time, a guy out there is waiting for you, as cheesy as it may sound, it is true!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. Im gonna take your advice and kick him to the curb.
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