I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
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Okay so i am going to meet this boy during the summer and he is interested from what i hear. BUT we havent met, he has just seen a picture of me. And if I am interested as well, how do i make him more interested without being a slut? like how do i act? some people say make him work for it because guys like a chase, but what if that confuses him?? i dont know what to do. I have flirted and stuff, but i need new tips. The last guy i flirted with was from like january to march. But he was a senior and graduated and at graduation i gave him a hug. We flirted like everyday, but what if the game is different for this new boy?? i want to show him im interested (hypothetically) without being seeming annoying or clingy. (link)
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Well first of all, wait till you have your first impression of the guy. You havent actually met him and when you do you might find your not interested in him at all.
If when you meet him, you feel interested in him, then just try to start a conversation that doesnt have awkward moments or pauses. Any awkward conversation can make both of you feel uncomfortable. Find common interests. Then you can do little things like touch his arm when he says something funny or do like a giggle instead of a laugh.
Theres a million little different ways to flirt and until you meet this guy you wont know exactly how to act. Just see how he reacts to the little things you do and do whatever you feel most comfortable doing.
And p.s, sometimes boys can be a bit oblivious to the fact that you are interested, so maybe after you meet him afew times hint it to one of your mutual friends so that he can get an idea and think about it.
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