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whats sup im kierra. i luv to give my advice to people becuase im good at it. i will try and answer ever ones questions as they are giving or asked. now some question i cant answer becuase the answer us always in yall face but hey some people cant see. i aint mean but i will tell it like it is so dont ask a question if you know you anit goin to like the answer holla!!!!!!!!!!!!

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okay so im 15....



and



pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.


anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..

REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!

also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.

so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.

how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.

when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?

can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?

either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.


i live in florida if that helps?
thank you.

NO i dont think you should get an abortion. a baby is a gift from god a blessing you were blessed. now im giving you this advice.

tell your dad. i dont think you have to get an abortion if you dont want one. i do know you have to have an adult in the room when you get one becuase you are under age.

dont listen to these people who say your to young....yes you are but i think you were women enough to lay down and have sex and get pregnat you women enough to take care of what will come out.

you should know though babies are expensive and a lot of work. now if you are willing to be the best mother you can be at such a young age and he is willing to be a father at such a young age then you do it sweetie.

i know you say your daddy will me mad but he have to understand god work in this kind of way for a reason and he should know this. if you get that abortion you could regret that for the rest of your life knowing you killed your first born child not giving ii life that can hurt someone for a long time.

i just want you to think though do you want to bring this baby in to the world and give it a life full of pain but teach it lifes leasons or kill every chance it can have?

you dont always have to have an abortion you can make your baby happy just by giving life and just give it up for adoption that way you wont feel bad about killing it.

i hope i helped think about it that murder even though it is not living yet!!!!!!!!

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