I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
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Im going to high school next year and ive never had a boyfriend. Im the kind of girl that is friends with a lot of people and a lot of guys. I really need someone to love me im becoming very depressed. Im bipolar and I just don’t think there is any hope for me. My best friend and I used to like eachother then everything went wrong and we hated eachother but now its back to just friends although we never even talk anymore. He says I scare him because I get really close to guys and flirt with them a lot, but I don’t notice I do that and nobody thinks I do “that” much other than him. He broke my heart and I fell for him so hard I don’t trust anybody guys or girls at all and I don’t like guys as in love or crush or whatever their still friends. Im love sick with nobody to go to. Ill be loosing all my friends none of them are going to my highschool. What do I do :/ ? (link)
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Oh, to be wrapped in the arms of my one true love. To be folded and folded till we become one.
To feel his hot breath on the nape of my neck.
And to know I will never be alone again.
Pretty easy to write and say. But I'm much older then these boys that play. Do you think these kinds of things and feelings come from boys? In truth they only want their toys. Do you think you'd know the feelings when you felt them, I bet. Do you know the difference between loneliness and love yet? Do you know one boy amongst all you have met? Seems to me you may know their names, but who they are is not set.
Love comes from time, love comes from pain, love comes from knowing more then just names. Love can be fleeting, love can be true, but find the one that is meant for you. Be careful, be cruel, be nice, but no fool. Don't fret it, don't sweat it, love comes when it should. Be strong and don't push it, if only you could.
So desperate, so worried, if you don't get him you'll just die. You may panic so much you will miss the perfect guy. You'll settle for anything, who cares if he's right, in the end you can always just take flight. But as you did tarry, worry and fret, your one true love you did miss him I bet.
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aww thanks i had to read it a few times till i totally got it but thanksss so much it helped i keep reading it i like it lol
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