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I graduate eighth grade soon I have 2 school days left then a week of ceremonies and school parties and my graduation. The high school im going to next year already hates me, the teachers and a lot of the kids. I don’t really do anything wrong. Im just really hyper then depressive but i probly am bipolar I just don’t wantme to be labled bipolar and be on medicines although itd help so much. One of the sports im tryin out for is cheerleading and people say im the opposite of a cheer leader but I did it this year, they say ill change the whole meaning of a cheerleader whatever if its good or bad idc but I will have fun at that HEHE. I don’t wana say im gothic but I love the gothic stuff and culture just ta give ya the pica. Im so afraid I wont make friends next year in highschool. Im not going to the same high school as any of my friends except one guy that used to be my best friend but I haven’t talked to in forever.
1 How do I make people not hate me they don’t even know me?
2 What do I do about bipolar every possible thing adds up and I 99 chance I am but idk if I wana get tested or not?
3 Will the people hate me even more if I do cheerleading and scare the shit out of them just because, it hasn’t stopped me before and I want to cheer I just hate the perky preps?
4 I can easily make friends with people, if im around atleast some people I know but I wont be i doubt ill make friends tho?
5 What do I do incase I get my heart shattered like my last best friend that we liked eachother then he made my life hell, I cant trust anybody at all anymore bc of it?
Answer any or all of the questions pleassse and thank ya. Im 14/f
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Everyone is looking for an excuse these days, some condition to blame there lousy life on, why is that do you suppose? Could it be that they just want to act the way they want to and not care what others think?
You know, I didn't even read your whole post, 'cause I've heard it so many time I could puke. We all have those things that make us different, those things we have to conquer, but because the big drug companies want to make money off of it, they tell you, you can't help it. Your a victim and it's not from a malady, it's from greed.
Stop making excuses for yourself and learn to deal with it. Your problem is you don't understand what you are, much less who you are. You are a Human Being, the joining together of the Human animal and the spiritual Being. Because the animal part of you is hard to handle, doesn't mean you stop trying and stuff drugs in your mouth. The spiritual being is there to control the human animal, let it. It's easy to be the animal, but you see what happens to your life when you do. If you want to learn and grow, let your spirit lead you. Let your spirit answer the questions.
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