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Q: I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her for now (Thats wat she said). She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does.One of my our friend also asked her (when i was not around) if she thinks anything could happen between us in the future. She told him that she doesnt know. she likes me as a friend for now and would like to know me more. And she keeps saying i am a great guy and stuff. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance.
we've known each other for the past 5-6 months only..
Maybe she does have feelings for you or may develop them, but doesn't want to dive right into a relationship with someone she has only known for a few months, I think that is very wise. You should just keep hanging out with her and being friends, don't make yourself stop loving her. Maybe sooner or later she will grow feelings or admit to them and you guys can give it a try. But for now your best bet is to just give her some space and keep on showing her who you are. Don't give up on it just yet, who knows what might happen in a month or a year.

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