I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
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My 12 year old sister has been making moves on me for like 2 or 3 months now. She'll take any chance to rub her body against me, she has big breasts and they get in the way if we have any physical activities but she specifically likes to do weird stuff like smother my face with them if we wrestle or whatever.
I try to avoid her mostly but she comes to me like to play around or wrestle and if I don't play with her she will just get on top and ignore the fact that I'm ignoring her.
I'm 18 and I have a girlfriend so this feels wrong on so many different levels. I've told her to cut it out but she doesn't seem to be getting the message. (link)
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I'm not going to give you advise, as much as a warning. Be real careful here and distance yourself from this behavior as quickly as possible. Absolutely do not wait to speak to someone about this behavior, you should have done so right away. You must find someone who will agree to do nothing immediately, mother or father or both, who can witness this behavior. You are 18 and you can't imagine how fast this can turn around on you and who do you think they will believe? An 18 year old boy, or a 12 year old innocent little girl? There is one other thing children that age are good at, lying. She turns this around on you, all of a sudden you are a child molester in prison. Personally, I would run as fast as I could out the door, you are 18, protect yourself, find another roof to live under.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks, I never though of it this way.
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