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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.I do it because I enjoy it.
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So i absolutely HATEHATEHATE babies and anyone under the age of 10. they just really piss me off.
well my mom made me move in with her boyfriend who has 2 sons, one of which has a girlfriend who also lives with them. well she was pregnant. but they induced labor yesterday (gag) because she was a week overdue (big deal). and now its like everything revolves around that stupid thing, and its only been ONE DAY. my mom doesnt tell me i love you on the phone anymore she left me home alone all day today so she could go to the hospital and go see the repugnant thing, and i know that whenever my family comes over theyre not going to want to see me anymore its all gonna be about that monster.
so all im really asking is how do i make it through all this, and how do i not kill it, and deal with the crying, and all that shit. and most of all how do i get over my hate. because i seriously hate ALL kids.
You're going a little over the top judging this entire situation. You need to put yourself in the MOM'S shoes. Just because you have problems with babies, doesn't mean that she has too, as well.
The only way to get over your hate for them, is to learn how to love them. Help your family, and do what you can around to help the baby.
Tell your mom how you feel too, so that she knows that you're feeling ignored and left in the dist-- even though I believe in the nicest way possible that you merely jealous.
That's normal.
Hating the baby though, is not going to do anything good for you.
Take it easy.
Please note that this is an ADVICE website. Look at my column page, I always say it how it is. If you don't like the answer given to you, you should not write back filled with anger and swears. There's no reason for that. I can clearly see now that you create your own problems and you need to learn how to face them.
All people want to do on this site is HELP YOU. If you don't like a response, then just deal with it in a mature way.
I'm sorry if you felt I criticized you, that was never my intention. But the way that you wrote this only suggest that you think your the victim. It's only fair that you see things at different angles. I only tried to suggest that.
I wish you the best of luck, regardless your disrespect towards my opinion.
(Rating: 5) Rating changed by DN. Change it, and watch your account vanish. I DIDNT FREAKING SAY IT WAS MY MOM'S KID. ITS NOT. READ THE QUESTION BEFORE YOU ANSWER BECAUSE YOUR NO FREAKING HELP. AND IM NOT FUCKING JEALOUS. SHUT UP SMART ONE.