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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.

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(Rating: 3) You didn't really answer my full question because this is just the ingredients list but not really how to mix them up together though. You tried though so I just give you a 3 since it was kind of half of an answer. Thanks.
(Rating: 5) I really appreciate the advice you gave me here, and it really turns out that I should have stayed out of this completely. You were right, and if I had listened to you better may be some of these friendships would still be intact. Thanks again you are a wonderful advice giver person!
(Rating: 5) thats so funny because i told my mom to buy green tea today before she came home and she came back with the tea, i look at the box and it says citrus. but i didnt want a flavored kind, but i tried it and its good. and yeah i went to cvs a while ago and got green tea extract pills but didnt use them yet. and i always drink water, so thankss!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much for your help.
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot :)
(Rating: 3) thx for the advice. I don't wanna talk to him ,but idk my heart says a little different...He is EXTREMELY shy after all idk...
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice. He is doing a little better. but i think hes just shoving it aside and not finding a way to deal with it. but i went and found him a few cars to work on while im gone visiting family (he cant go because he has to work) but that helps him out alot
(Rating: 5) Thanks! You really helped! : )
(Rating: 5) thank you will it go away if i dont do anything though?
(Rating: 5) thanks so much for your advice :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much your advice rocked
(Rating: 5) Thanks :-) Good Answer
(Rating: 5) aw thank you! :)
(Rating: 5) hey...well i got my period but i got it today...this morning i was getting cramps for a few days and now i have it but very light compared to my normal first days and the cramsp arent near what my normal first days are its not like little dots of blood...i mean its definitly strong enough to fill a tampon throughout the day but not like i normally have it and ive been on constant advil cause my tonsils are bothering me and swollen so the cramps are prob rally subsided by that... and last week i was having problems and i was really sick cause my lower back and sides were hurting a lot and i was nauseus and getting weak and achey and my pee was really dark and i went for a blood test on the 13th and my doctor gave me infection meds so ive been on that...the results came back that it wasnt a kidney infection, urinary tract infection, mono, i wasnt pregnant, blahblah...ti went through everything...but i was still getting some signs of like kidney infection and stuff so on the 19th i went in for another blood test... i havent goten the results yet for that now me and my bf had sex on the 9th but thats not the time im scared about cause we used a condom, it was short, he pulled out...im scared of that time he went in for like 2 seconds without one on and im not exactly sure when that was but it was def before the 7th would that have shown up in the blood test if i was pregnant or not cause the blood test said i wasnt but im not sure how long until that would actually show up in a blood test im so scared that im gonna get this bloodtest back and it say im pregnant or sumthing im scared in general i know im going nuts because so many ppl do it unprotected but im just so not used to this stuff...ive never done it or ealt with it before and i realized that its not worth 2 seconds of pleasure to risk my life...and ruin it...and ruin my parents life after all theyve done for me i cant deal with this...im such a good kid and i dont ever want to do anything like i did ever again...to the point that if my bf wants to break up with me for it im fine with that cause hes not worth going through what im going through right now i keep reading on google that early pregnancy signs can include cramping and spotting...like light pink or brown spotting but not enough to fill up a pad or tampon for a few days... im def more than bleeding little spots...but its been one day and its going away already!? what do i do?! i have no signs really of pregnancy...my boobs are normal in size and theyre no different like not tender or sensitive or anything...i was getting fatigue but cause of my sickness and im all better from that now late period yes but im only 16 so its normal for it to not be perfect... im not really hungry or getting cravings...if anything i was losing my appetite from being sick but im back to normal now idk...i just dont know what to do with myself i know i GOT my period but whys it going awya and whys it not as strong
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo unbelievably much!! =) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
(Rating: 5) Thank you so very much! This helped A LOT:)
(Rating: 5) thanks so much. hopefully this will really help :) <3
(Rating: 5) your advice-- greatest out of all! thank you so much =]
(Rating: 5) oh whoa ew lol but thankiees =]
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) Nathan and Peyton have a baby together?!
(Rating: 5) thnx, & yep, I DON'T like trent that way he's just a bff
(Rating: 5) i am going to Duck
(Rating: 5) omgsh i agreed with every word you said! Thank you so much! :]
(Rating: 5) thanks!! :)
(Rating: 5) I like your tough love approach lol. Thank you this is really really good advice.
(Rating: 5) thank you!!
(Rating: 5) ah thank you so much :D. you're a great columnist
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) 1,2, and 3 all show our leader to be incompetent. There is no debate that we were completely unprepared for 9/11 and it was badly handled, but that doesn't mean the government funded the attacks and were directly responsible.
(Rating: 5) I could give you his number But yeah you would have to call him and like tell him how i feel about him please!!! Reply backk
(Rating: 5) you really made me see everything in another way... im very grateful for you help with a complete stranger. shows there are some good ppl. the reason everything is hard is my best guy friend ditched out on me cuz he couldnt stop wanting more and it was hurting him which i understand but he was the person i told everyting to then when he was gone i talked to my bf all the time. now he is gone i literally have no one. if i told my mom my true feelings of everything she would blow it all out of proportion like she does and the next bet would be my 5 year old neice and we all know where that would end up... "sesame street and some ice cream will make it better auntie" so i feel a bit surrouded by all this ya know but thanks man for sure
(Rating: 4) Gawd me too, I think it's time to change my cell phone number. ;)
(Rating: 5) Rating changed by DN. Change it, and watch your account vanish. I DIDNT FREAKING SAY IT WAS MY MOM'S KID. ITS NOT. READ THE QUESTION BEFORE YOU ANSWER BECAUSE YOUR NO FREAKING HELP. AND IM NOT FUCKING JEALOUS. SHUT UP SMART ONE.
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH YOU HAVE TOTALLY HELPED ME!!! LIKE HONESTLY MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN MAKING ME FEEL LIKE IM THE HORRIBLE PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP...AND IM SO NOT...BUT I SEE FORM YOU ADVICE THAT IM NOT...IT HURTS SO BAD BUT I THANK YOU SO MUCH...MUCH LOVE AND TAKE CARE.. ~DANIELLE GODBLESS
(Rating: 5) cute =)
(Rating: 5) thanks!! =)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! This made me feel better and it was just really good advice. I think I will talk to her about it and this reassured me so much! I'll definitely keep you updated. :)
(Rating: 5) thank you. that was really good advice, and i plan to follow it
(Rating: 5) thanks.
(Rating: 5) Thanks a bunch
(Rating: 5) thanks, good advice! =]
(Rating: 3) But those aren't full episodes hun.
(Rating: 5) Thanks! Is that a cream or somthing?
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) well thanks. he's 4 but we're going to the dentist tomorrow
(Rating: 5) thank you this helps alot!! =D =D
(Rating: 5) Thank you, I appreciate it. :) You keep doing well too!
(Rating: 4) Thanks for your response. You're right, I haven't been getting very much advice on the matter at all. It seems most people on this website are just as cowardly as I am. While your advice is sound, I don't want to seek advice like this from my parents. The idea was the anonymous strangers on the internet would be emotionally distant enough to give me a the logical, straightforward answer I'm looking for instead of the emotion and religion-laden drivel I was expecting from my friends and family. I was obviously mistaken. Most doctors in the United States would not be willing to help me, either. Especially not after the Kavorkian case. I would have to know a like-minded doctor to seek help that way, and I'm afraid I don't.
(Rating: 5) Wow this was awesome advice and I'm really glad that someone is out there who understands and is getting help. Thank you. I have another question though...i will send it to you now.
(Rating: 4) thankss =]
(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much! I will =D I like the idea of asking him what he's looking at haha Thanks for replying so quickly, too! I'll keep you posted on what happens next :D I've never had a relationship before, so this would be my first one if anything happened, although there were other potential people haha thankyou so much for your help! xx
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