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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.I do it because I enjoy it.
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A crush I've had from probably November last year knows that I like him, because I told him, and was really nice to me, although he was probably quite shocked haha.. but nothing happened because he liked someone else, a friend of mine, actually, but now they're not close anymore, and I've noticed we always seem to be the first people to notice each other walk into the room, or accidently catch eye contact.. there's been other people for me, but I'm kinda crazy about him, more so than I have been for anyone else in my life - do these little things that happen very often mean anything? What should I do? Or am I being paranoid, and should just get over him? Any help HUGELY appreciated! Thankyou so much in advance!!!!! xx
It sounds to me like there's some kind of common attraction between the two of you.
Look at this from his perspective-- he knew you liked him, but started something with someone else. Wouldn't you feel a little hesitant to approach yourself? He probably feels insecure with the decision he made in the first place. If you want anything to happen here, you're going to have to make the conversation. I'm sure he's nervous after all that's happened.
I suggest you be up front. It's hard, but nobody on here is going to give you an answer like he will. If you honestly too shy to create conversation all together-- wait on him-- see if he says anything to you during one of these situations where you connect eyes. Casually, even humorously, ask him what he's looking at even. It'll relax things, so he knows that you don't hold anything against him.
Good luck hun, keep us updated!
(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much! I will =D
I like the idea of asking him what he's looking at haha
Thanks for replying so quickly, too! I'll keep you posted on what happens next :D
I've never had a relationship before, so this would be my first one if anything happened, although there were other potential people haha
thankyou so much for your help! xx