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Just call me Calli.


I like Jamie Bell and Cillian Murphy. I like Friday Night Lights and Desperate Housewives and Dead Like Me. I like writing, roleplaying in writing communities. I like reading: Harry Potter, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, House of Leaves. I love House of Leaves. I like Adam Pascal in Rent. I like messing around in photoshop. I'm not too fantastic, but I like it. I like chemistry. I love Audrey Hepburn.


I dislike poetry. I dislike physics.


I am indifferent about Twilight.


I know nothing about romantic relationships. But I have friends. I have family. And I like them.


If that helps at all, there it is. If not, there it is.

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Hello Everyone:

I would to ask all of you something. Why does it seem like it's hard for good guys like me who dosen't, smoke, drink or do any of that bad stuff to find a right girl for him? It seems like there are a lot of girls out there who are nothing but trouble and always want want want all the time. I do not like girls who are always wanting stuff all the time. And it seems like all the good nice looking girls already have boyfriends. What is up with this?

Aw, I'm really sorry that's all you see. I personally hate it when guys drink/smoke, do any of that, it's a huge turn off. Its the same in a lot of people I know.

I think most girls are like that because they feel they have a right to want something. They think that if you chose to be with them then you should love them more than life itself (its those princess stories) and that you shouldn't be against giving them everything. Its not the right way to be, but some think its justified.

All the nice looking girls, and all the nice girls, already have boyfriends because they are nice. They are caring, good hearted people that yes you could fall in love with, as could other boys (and they do).

I know this sounds a little overused (okay, a lot overused) but just keep trying. All girls aren't like that, and a ton would love someone like you. I'm confident in that. Just be nice, I'm not saying submit to their will but be nice and put yourself out there.

I hope I answered your question.
-Calli

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