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Q: Okay so I have 2 bffs, Kenzie and Bri. Bri and I have been friends since 4th grade, Im in 6th now. All of us are. Kenzie & I just met this year.. but anyway

well we all had this major fight for a really stupid reason and it really effected our relationship, even after words. Kenzie and Bri were never mad at eachother, so their relationship didnt suffer, just the one with me. They were all ganging up on me and stuff, and it was really annoying.

Well now they ALWAYS have plans together, and I feel left out.. It is really upsetting me and Ive tried telling them how I felt, but they just say "Well maybe you should make plans FIRST" But that is hard to do, considering they always have plans. And then on the bus they use MY phone to call and make plans for themselves, not even asking if I want to be part of it. It is really upsetting me. Ill ask "Hey can I spend the night tonight?" And shell say "No I want Bri to" and It just makes me want to cry. Today Im going to Alex's (youve heard about him, lol) birthday party with Kenzie. Its fine when kenzie and I are by ourselves, and its the same way with Bri and I. Bri always says we used to be like this *crosses her fingers* But now we are like this *sticks thumb and pinky finger out, all others down* and it makes me sad. They take it as a joke or get mad at me when I try to talk to them, and I dont want parents involved.

Thanx in Advance!

ALSO. Bri gets mad at me for stupid things like rolling my eyes. I dont know if that helps *laughs*, but w/e

P.s. I know this is off topic, but what should I give Alex for his birthday considering I have no money, at ALL.

what a quinkey Dink. I've had the same prob. in the past. You can even check my column but one of the replies to my prob. really helped me. They told me to talk to my friends tell thim how I feel. So here is my advice for you:

Tell Bri and Kenzi how you feel. Tell them you don't like being treated this way, and that if they want to be friends with you then why don't they start acting like it, because your fed up with it.

BUT if they don't take this seriously or they just say "well we don't need you" Then they aren't a true friend. And I know everyone says that but it's sooooooo true. Try finding other people to hang out with. Who knows Bri & Kenzi might turn around and apologize, or they might be jelous but either way your shouldn't put yourself down, cause it's there loss. IF they aren't gonna treat you like a true friend then don't waste your time on them find someone else

Rating: 5

That would be awesome advice except Bri and kenzie dont take this stuff seriously
And I dont want to lose them, but this is getting mean. Bri just says "yea yeah w/e move on Sam build a bridge"
And kenzie always makes it turn into a fight

BUT THANK YOU!

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