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Q: Okay, I'm kinda in the phase of my life where I'd like a boyfriend (:

I'm not totally desperate, and I'm 'taking life as it comes' however that doesn't really land you one.

Where are places I should go to at least FLIRT with guys.

Places guys would go if they don't have girlfriends would help heaps, the most nerve wracking thing about flirting in my opinion is the fact they might have girlfriends. I know it's a common thing, but since I've never really done it before it would really discourage me. Haha.

Well, flirting should be natural enough for you that you can do it without feeling too uncomfortable... The single guys usually tend to do the stupid thing and go hang with their buddies at their house or something... So, the best way is at school or work. I'm not sure how old you are... but I'm pretty sure you couldn't be too old or you wouldn't be just starting... Just find a guy you think is cute and flirt a little... if he ends up having a girlfriend, then that's not your fault... Just pick the guy, flirt but not hard core flirt, and if you see signals of a girlfriend, back off unless you have proof he doesn't have a girl. That's all the ideas I have for if he has a girlfriend or not. I hope this helped a little. Have fun flirting it up with the guys!

Rating: 5

Thanks that's really helpful! I'm 15 turning 16, just to clear up my age

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!