babiibananax3's advice column

ok well my bf and i broke up because he doesnt have time for a gf and im moving in a little over a month. its been really painful for me and i dont know what to do. i dont really care about dating him anymore but hes my best friend too and we have been best friends for a while. he knows everything about me but now he doesnt even have time to call me-seriously. he never calls and when he( or i) finally calls he is like im really busy i cant talk now sry we can talk later. i dont know what to do and last sunday he was flirting with me A LOT and we ended up kissing a couple times because we still kinda like each other but its really confusing. the thing that i cant handle is i've never had a friend who didnt even have time to talk to me! we go to different schools and now he never has time to hang out so we barely see each other except at church and youth group. please help me!! he doesnt have time but he means so much to me and i am leaving soon!!! thank you so much and i will rate :)

i would say you definitely need to sit down and have a talk with him
now how would you go about doing this considering he doesnt have time to talk?
i would say text/instant message or even call and say i have something really important that we need to talk about

then from there say that you just want to know where you stand with him, considering he never makes time for you and the fact that youre moving

if you say its important, but he still doesnt make time for it, then you shouldnt make time for him.

and on the bright side, if you are moving, then that is a whole new opportunity for new best friends, it'll be hard letting go, but in the end everything will be okay. if its not okay, its not the end.

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(Rating: 5) thanks!! that really helped :)

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