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Q: is it wrong to touch a guy's pants in that "area" [not like a handjob because there were clothes on] after knowing him for a few weeks? i kissed him a few weeks ago and then this happened yesterday.
honestly do you think its slutty? and if it is how can i kind of put the sexual stuff on hold an just focus on getting to know him better?
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Well it really depends on the message you depict with the touch. If you did it seductively and came off like oh my gosh I want you, then yes I think that is kind of slutty, but if you just slipped you know and didn't mean it that way thne no.

Don't put yourself in situation where you are alone and have a chance to do things sexual. Attempt to stay with a group so you can just talk and get to know one another. Text, phone, and just make conversation.

Hope I Helped.

well then i guess im pretty much a slut. it kind of seemed like a big deal to me and i was just wondering. thanx

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