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Q: okays well im 14 and a female. theres this guy i really like, and im pretty sure he likes me. we talk all the time. and flirt. his friends are telling him to ask me out and my friends are tellin me to ask him out. im thinkin aobut askin him out, but what if he says no. our friendship would be weired. but i think we should give it a chance by going out. i think we would make a good couple. do you think i should take the chance and ask him out??? or wait for him too???
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You can show him that you like him and are interested without asking him out. Flirt around alot and even joke about you dating and if you feel after a few days you feel like you want to move it to the next level ask him if he likes you and then let him know you like him. Then if you still feel like you want to move up a level ask him out. I know it's hard to ask a guy out and let him know you are out there, it is very difficult to put yourself out there that close to rejection, but the worst he can do is say no and if he does then well you can move on. I'm pretty sure he won't say no if he really likes you as much as you say he does. Things will work out fine.

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