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Q: i finally had sex with my bf.
and i feel great about it
i think i was mentally prepared and ready for it
i didn't rush into or anything...but

will he expect me to have sex with him all the time now?

when will it stop hurting?

and is he going to be expecting me to do more of the work...or try new kinky things?

please don't tell me to ask him
thats why im asking you lol

thanks
Yes he will probably be expecting it from now on, but I can't say what he will want from you. Most guys want to change it up and try new things, he will probably want to try new positions and things like that.

It should stop hurting like the 4th or 5th time you do it, but who can really say. Some people it doesn't hurt after like the second time, but who knows. Im very proud that you made a mature decision and made sure you were ready that was very responsible of you.

I know you said not to tell you to ask him but you should really talk to him about it, if you can't talk to the person you are having sex with about sex, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.

Hope I Helped.

thanks so much

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I am a 19 year old female. I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet. I am funny. I am free-willed. I am a lover. I am a friend. I have been through alot & many people call me their guru. & I will try to give you the healthiest advice possible. I may be young but I have a lot of life experiences in many areas, and since my career will be giving advice I figured I'd give a head start. I can be blunt and will give you my honest opinion, although I will do it in a nice way.
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