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Q: Okk, so dont judge me for this please i am having enough trouble....(not saying that you would) but there is this boy, and something kind of happened...well we flirted a lot and then he finally kissed me and it was great...but i began to freak out after he went back home..and he got my number and like a month later he began calling me and i didnt want to deal with him so i told him to stop that i didnt want to talk to him....i think i really hurt him,,,,but why did i freak you ask?? ha ha well this is what is holding me back...you see he was kind of...adopted...into my family....I know right?? and that is freaking me out because i feel like crap now and i dont know why. And i had a dream that we was getting married. But that made me freak out more. And my friend is all like.."what if you are like in love with him" and i was telling her that i refused to be because of that reason....but she thinks that i might be so now i am stressing out even more...so what is your input and what should i do??
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Okay first of all just breath okay haha. If you love someone there is really nothin you can do about it. When you love someone you just do, you have no control over it. If this boy is adpoted into your family then you really have no blood relation to him and though it may feel awkward there is really no incest going on. You really just have to go with your gut on this one. Try talking to the boy, tell him your worries about it and apologize for freaking and telling him not to call. After that if you still feel as though you can't have that sort of relationship with him at least you still have your friendship =].
Hope I Helped.
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awh!! you are making me well up!! ha ha...its just so confusing...im just glad that there are people like you and things like this site to help people...these problems (petty or not) are really really difficult...ha ha i will follow your advice! ;)
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I am a 19 year old female. I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet. I am funny. I am free-willed. I am a lover. I am a friend. I have been through alot & many people call me their guru. & I will try to give you the healthiest advice possible. I may be young but I have a lot of life experiences in many areas, and since my career will be giving advice I figured I'd give a head start. I can be blunt and will give you my honest opinion, although I will do it in a nice way.
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