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Q: soi really like this guy [lets call him J]. but teh thing is that i liked his best friend [T] and he hates me alot actually :/
but i actually started liking J cos he always looked at me alot also smiling very nicly, always turning around when he sees me and things like that. also his friends always react when they see me. and recently T actually started talking to me on msn. but he didnt say much tho, but he wasnt mean either. but J has another guy he likes to hang with [A] who also seems to like me. and now i'm a bit confused because i dont know who to like. and i also cant believe that J actually likes me because T hates me so much. and J also has these days when he ignores me alot bnut then smiles again. and also A and his other friends always point at me when they see me, and then J sees me, sometimes he grinnes and sometimes he just looks away awkwardly. and everytime i walk by him theres just this preasure between us but in a good way. and it feels like he's actually 'giving' it to me. for ex yesterday he was walkin by me and half way i didnt feel anything, but then he saw me and as soon as he did i felt it again. its really freaky actually lol.
but i dno if he really likes me or if hes just making fun of me or something, because also his friends never added me back on facebook. but i didnt add HIM tho. so i thought he told them not to add me cos i didnt add HIM either or smth. but i dunnoo :(
sorry if this is so long but please help !!! thankss xxxxxx
I think J likes you, but I'm not him so I can't promise that. The best way to find out is to not go all elementary and ask him yourself. I don't think this T guy is worth your time, and A is just some friend... unless you really want to, I wouldn't try to like him. The tension you feel is called liking someone...you get close to them and it's like this buzz of energy between you two right? The reason you don't feel it until he sees you is because you are giving energy but he's not giving back until he feels you, then he starts to give and it makes a buzz. I can understand it more if you want me to. But that's what I got. I hope I helped you a little... Good luck with that J guy. Don't be afraid to take a chance.

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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