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My name is Senaida. I am a very opinionated lady, I believe I have been through very tough times but deffinetly not the worst. I can take a lot of crap, and I am glad to always make a friend. Best friends come from fights in the beginning, I have learned that. I love giving advice as well as receiving it.

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Ok, so my friend has become serious with her BF. AND SHES COMPLETELY BETRAYED WHO SHE IS!!! Shes like super perky and totally self-centered all of the sudden. She used to be super nice and caring with a bit of goth-ness to her. Now all she can talk about how happy/lucky she is and completely ignores my problems or anything i want to talk about. I know she loves her BF, i'm not saying they should break up, but how can i tell her about this without looking like a bitch?
This Perky Narcissist is not the girl who used to be my friend.
I want my friend back =(

I think you'd be just fine saying it exactly to her like you did here. If she doesn't understand then she's not worth even hanging out with. That's not what you want to hear but if she thinks that her boyfriend is so great, then let her be with him, I bet you have a lot of other friends who would more than willingly be happy to listen to you and help you out. Obviously she's just too caught up with her boyfriend to notice that you are trying to tell her something. Write her a note or call her and tell her exactly how you said everything here and tell her you're not meaning to be rude but you just want her back without him getting in the way.

Good luck.

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(Rating: 3) shes really sensitive..thats why I'm worried about sounding harsh... but thanks a lot for your advice.
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