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(Sorry, it's long. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP!)

Well I'm 17 & my girlfriend is 15. I am currently in college (I started school at an early age)in San Francisco & she's out in Anaheim. I have gotten into some trouble. Therefore, I can't leave school for 5 weeks. & I can't see my girlfriend. While I was out here, she found out things about me that I have never told her. She found out I have a kid, and that I have a criminal record. At first she was mad, but then she forgave me. Well that same week, I was told that if I behave, I can get out of the school in 2 1/2 weeks. I turned out I got into a fight the day after, and so now I'm back to 5 weeks. And my girlfriend got really mad. So mad, that she was about to break up with me. I told her, that I would make up all of the suffering she is going through. I've been with her for almost a month. But we've been best friends since May of last year. And when I was living in Anaheim, I always spent the night at her house. And I know that I am older than her, but we've been together at night. We haven't had sex. But what we have done together is: Dry sex, fingering, and I went down on her. Other than that, nothing else has happened. My parents, don't really like her. And her parents don't like me. All because we're from different backgrounds. She's mexican & I'm white with an Asian stepmom. Anyways, what I want some advice on is:

- What can I do to make up for what she's going through right now?

- How can I deal with her and my family?

- I'm almost turning 18 (in Decemember), is there any laws for being 18 & being with a 15 year old (16 in May)

- I'm ready to have sex with her. But I'm not sure, what she wants. She agreed to dry sex, fingering and me going down on her. And I really love her, and I want to be her first. What can I do.

Thanks in advance.

first let me say your both getting in deep. if the police were to find out about this you could go to jail trust me i seen it happen where im from. now on the whole parent thing your not dating her parents your dating her so who cares if they dont like you or if your parents dont like her its albout you two but i dont thing you should have sex that is believe it or not statitory rape and you could get some years for it wait till she is atlease 17 years of age. the sex thing you two doing now is just fine i mean what yall like 2 years apart right but wait for the sex thing so you to want get in trouble. to make up for what you have done send her gifts showing her you love her. i wounder though can she come see you, if she can then try and arrange that.

hope i helped be safe

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