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so I'm going to try to make this as short as possible...here it goes:
there are two guys guy #1 and 2...
#1: He is nice to me, incredibly sweet (although none of my friends or family like him and he's not very attractive), but in school (and outside of school) I never see him. So, when we are passing in the hallway or see eachother at lunch it is sooo awkward because we only talk on AIM and text, and we just like don't say anything. Well, he asked me out once, and then told me he liked me another time, and I told him I liked him too (because I do) and then he asked me if I would ever go out with a guy like him...and I said not until things becaome less awkward for us. sooo he dropped the subject and it's been weeks since he brought it up. I flirt with him a lot on text, but he can be a liar. so anyways, he brought up the subject again, but I might be liking another guy now.
#2. He is more attractive than guy #1, I talk to him at lunch (in school and on text) my friends like him, my family does too, but we nver hung out outside of school. He is tall and makes me laugh, and my friends are trying to set me up with him,, telling me how cute we are and everything, but he sends mixed signals. and I don't think he likes me as a gf, just a friend, but I'm not really sure. It's really confusing. We never talked about our relationship and whatnot, so I don't know who to like.
Can anyone help me out? comments and opinions would be greatly appeciated. thanks a bunchh. (link)
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ok first off..it shouldn't matter what people look like..as long as they are good people inside..sorry that sounds chessy..but its the truth. and second, it shouldn't matter how others feel about the guy, it is all up to you. But my opinion is that guy 1, you seem like you have nothin to talk about i know itis becaus u said from akwardness but if you get in a relationship with him, it isn't good to not have anything to talk about so i don't think that would be a good pick for you. and as for the second guy, he seems great but if you aren't sure what is going out with his signals then maybe you should talk to him about it or wait it out a little bit longer to see what happenes between the two of you. if you wanted to talk to him bout it then just be normal and talk bout the relationship you have together and if he would like it to change a little bit..but my bet is go for the 2nd guy. it sounds like it would work better because u have talked to the 1st guy a while and teh akwardness hasn't gone away so it probally won't so go for #2. Good luck and i hope everything works out ok!
~sealgirl~
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Rating: 5
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thanks, I totally get where you're going with this.
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