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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.
I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)
Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2
We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo
A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)
God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler
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I dont know if this is really your "style" but i need a boy's point of view...You see this guy that i like (a senior 18) was really flirting with me on friday. But about four weeks ago i overheard him tell somebody he was in a relationship. But i was excited because he was flirting with me you know, and then i started thinking about the girlfriend thing, and i asked someone on here and they said that he sounded like a player, and since he was a senior and i was just a freshman, he just wanted me for sex. But he just dont seem like that kind of person, and now i am worried. And i just don't know what to do right now, i am excited that he likes me but the reply to my question has me worried all at the same time. I dont think it makes him a player or wanting me for sex, but what do you think? thanks
From wha I've heard(HEARD), older or higher grade guys tend to do this a lot. Cause they believe Freshman Girls are easy targets to have sex with, if you know what I mean... But best to be sure is to (1) think do you really want a relationship with a guys whose going to graduate when the years over and he's off to college(I won't answer that, you'll need to figure that one on your own) and (2) look for signs of such things.
Signs like, flirting with other girls, hangs with other guys who have the same kind of rumors, constantly looks at othrer girls, etc. Best thing to do is to observe and keep doing what your doing. The thing is, they'll try and hide it and do it quite well. But if you look hard enough, you'll definitely be able to tell.
If(if) he asks you out, the choice is yours. Deny it, and if he is a player, he'll immediately move on to another girl(asshole) or he'll keep trying to flirt with you and stuff, or continue to try to get in your pants.
Accept and many things could happen. But from they way you ask, your worried about giving into sex and having him leave. Best thing to do is just say no. He'll either go "ok" and wait. Or he'll be overeactive and try to get you into sympathize into doing it. Again, best to say no, don't experiment, don't fall for all the tricks of the seducer. Cause if you do, the consequences can be greater than they seem.
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