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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
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There's a guy from school who had a big crush on me. He knew absolutely nothing about me, and yet he still liked me. He used to keep talking to me and trying to get me to go on a date with him. After a while we started instant messaging on yahoo, and I got to know him a little better. At first I thought he was kind of cute, but I wasn't really that into him once I got to know him. I didn't want to lead him on, so finally I told him very nicely that I would just like to remain friends. He got mad at me! Now he's not talking to me at all. I told him we could still be friends, but he doesn't care. And it makes me wonder, was he even interested in me as a person or did he just want me to be his girlfriend? Anyway, now I feel bad about rejecting him (even though I did it very gently, I didn't diss him or anything) and I don't even think we're friends anymore. What should I do now?
Give him time.
He's probably feeling disappointed right now. You didn't do anything wrong. It wouldn't be fair to put you in the position of going out with someone who you don't even like. & it wouldn't be fair to him to lead him on.
Just give him some time to sort out his feelings.
Do you have anyone who's mutual friends of the both of you? Get them to talk to him. Try IMing him a few days later & have what you want to say to him already typed. Then just copy & paste it, so even if he blocks you right after you send it, he'll still have to read it.
Good luck!
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