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My name is Senaida. I am a very opinionated lady, I believe I have been through very tough times but deffinetly not the worst. I can take a lot of crap, and I am glad to always make a friend. Best friends come from fights in the beginning, I have learned that. I love giving advice as well as receiving it.

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There's a guy from school who had a big crush on me. He knew absolutely nothing about me, and yet he still liked me. He used to keep talking to me and trying to get me to go on a date with him. After a while we started instant messaging on yahoo, and I got to know him a little better. At first I thought he was kind of cute, but I wasn't really that into him once I got to know him. I didn't want to lead him on, so finally I told him very nicely that I would just like to remain friends. He got mad at me! Now he's not talking to me at all. I told him we could still be friends, but he doesn't care. And it makes me wonder, was he even interested in me as a person or did he just want me to be his girlfriend? Anyway, now I feel bad about rejecting him (even though I did it very gently, I didn't diss him or anything) and I don't even think we're friends anymore. What should I do now?

Just give it time.
I know you don't want to hear that but after time he'll realise what's really supposed to happen. It's a good thing that you let him down easy, I do not think he had the right to get mad at you. It's not like you can force yourself to like him, whatever the reason for why he's acting the way he is, don't fret about it. You shouldn't worry yourself over nothing.

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