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Okay. Well. Yeah. =]
I'm a 17-year-old guy and I'm bisexual. It took me a while to admit to it, but I finally accepted it. =] Anyways, I've told my mom and she has no problem with it. My parents are divorced, by the way. Well, I want to tell my dad, but he is extremely homophobic. I seriously think he would yell at me. He lives in another state. I visit him in March.
Should I tell him I'm bisexual, and if I should, then how? I'd like to tell him before March because I wear eyeliner and don't want to stop wearing it when I see him. (link)
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if you dont feel ready to tell him yet.
then dont.
you need to be comfortable saying..
"dad im bisexual, i like girls and guys"
before you can actually say it to him.
go to his place in march.
visit with him.
and have a good time.
and if while you are there..
you feel you are ready to tell him..
then tell him.
if not..just wait.
until you are ready.
keep in mind that he may react negatively.
but he may not mean to react that way.
thats a big deal for a parent..
any parent.
it will be a shock to him.
and you have to let him adjust to it.
if he gets angry or upset.
let him.
its his way of showing the shock.
im sure he loves you..for you.
it just may take him awhile to get used to the idea.
dont get mad at him for reacting negatively tho.
that will only prolong the process.
just try to understand that is as hard for him to accept it as it was for you.
im sure everything will work out okay.
GOOD LUCK!
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