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Hey everyone, my name is Dave and I am currently 18 years old. I'm a pretty easy going, open-minded person that enjoys discussion and helping someone out in need. Lifting is one true passion that I will follow for as long as I possibly can, I just have a love for it. I also enjoy music, hanging out with my friends and overall, having a good time and getting the best out of life. Please, if anybody has a question about fitness, nutrition, or anything for that matter, dont hesitate to ask, i would be happy to help anybody out.

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my bf and i last night talked about what we daydream and stuff not exactly text sex/sex put like him taking off my shirt and where i would touch his back and chest and stuff like that. we both really liked it and got turned on and thought it was sexy but the thing is we are really good Christians and we are wondering if it was wrong that we did that. can anyone tell me what they consider this? its not sex but is it 'unholy' i think it might have been kinda bad but i still really liked it. what should i do?? thanks so much :]

If you are getting tempted by these daydreams, then yes, it technically is a sin. God even tells us that if a person looks at another human being and has sexual desire or lust, that alone is a sin. We were made to be attracted to the opposite sex however, and it is hard not to sin when it comes to that sort of thing. As long as you know though that what you're doing could be wrong, that's a good step in controlling temptation. Don't get me wrong, it isn't easy at all :\ He knew we would commit sins like these, which is one reason why he forgives us. Good luck to you in whatever choice you decide to make! Dave

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(Rating: 5) thanks! great answer :]
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