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**THIS IS LONG! I APOLOGIZE!**
Eek! I don't know what to do. I met this boy, we'll call Joe, when I was in 10th grade. He was in 11th. Over the next 2 years we became best friends. I could talk to him forever, we always hung out. We were inseparable.
He graduated a year before I did, and then went off to the Navy. I didn't talk to him much the next year , with me being a senior and him busy with basic training and everything. My senior year ended and he called to tell me that he was done with basic and he was coming back home. I was so excited! So that summer, we hung out for the few months that he was home and everything was amazing. I told him that I really liked him and he didn't really say if he liked me, but it was obvious.
A few weeks later he went back to San Diego and I was sad. I really wanted to ask him out, but I was so scared. So I called him a few days later and a girl answered his phone.. IT WAS HIS WIFE. He'd been married for awhile and he never told me. She said that he didn't want to ever talk to me again. I WAS DEVASTATED!
Fast forward to the past 3 months.. he's since divorced and he hangs out with me all the time. He wants to date me, but I'm still hurt over what he did years ago. He says he's sorry. But it's weird. I could see myself dating him.. but at the same time I'm scared that if anything bad happened, we wouldn't be best friends anymore. Gah. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do. Stay friends? Or date and see what happens? (link)
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i say you should date and see what happens. i know that it is a big step but you never know what could happen. if you have been best friends for so long then you know eachother so well. and you neverknow how well your relationship is going to work. But as for not wanting to lose the friendship if it goes wrong. don't worry bout that.i mean, if you are as good of friends as you say you are, then you probally would end up still being friends if the relationship didn't work. Just think about what is happening now and not what might happen later, so i say go for it and live your life to have fun, not to worry about what is going to happen in the future. Good luck and i hope everything goes good between the two of you!!!
~sealgirl~
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