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whats sup im kierra. i luv to give my advice to people becuase im good at it. i will try and answer ever ones questions as they are giving or asked. now some question i cant answer becuase the answer us always in yall face but hey some people cant see. i aint mean but i will tell it like it is so dont ask a question if you know you anit goin to like the answer holla!!!!!!!!!!!!

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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other. andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends. so my ? is iwant to hear what pple think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday. thank you so much and i really appreciate it :]

i see what you mean. i went through the same thing with my bf. i cared so much about him and i knew he loved me. when you move far away from a person its hard becuase you want to feel thier touch and you want to see them smiling at you everyday. everything happends for a reason. you might not like the fact that you mgiht be moving but life goes on. long distance relationships dont always work. when yall not in the same place his attention will drift slowly to another girl and your will to another boy. yall can still have the best friendship but a relationship just wont work. i know he will be able to drive but thats major gas money and plus he might not want to sometimes and that will make you mad. you might go back and visit but its only for a while. i know yall love eachother but that wont work that way im sorry. if yall put in the right time it will but yall young. its plenty of chicks thats going to try and get his attention and guys will get yours.

i hope i helped you. i have to keep it real with you it dont always work.

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(Rating: 5) your completely right and i totally dont mind u saying to let go of him cause ur right and ur being realistic and i want to too. thanx so much ur advice is GREAT! :}
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