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Q: at summer camp my friend was the most popular one in our cabin i didnt know how she did it she is ssssssssssssoooooooooooooooooo tom boyish i dont know why she was so popular yes she is one of my best friends i just want to know how she was so popular so i can be like her next year
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Popularity isn't something you can copy.
Tomboys are often popular with guys, and when girls and guys hang out together, they are seen as a good part of the group. However, trying to imitate her, by being tomboyish isn't going to help you much. If you're a girly-girl, and you like yourself for who you are, just be a little more confident and outgoing. The one place you could go wrong is by being whiny or clingy. Its not attractive.
So here's my Summer Camp Checklist:
1. Be Confident.
as Marilyn Monroe said, "The sexiest thing you can wear is confidence."
2. Be outgoing.
We all learned a lesson from "Confessions of a Wallflower" right?
3. Be yourself.
Because nobody wants a obviously fake friend, the same way nobody wants an obviously fake Prada.
4. Don't cling.
Clinging isn't always attractive in clothes either... Friendship has the same tendency. Only the healthiest friendships allow for some clinging.
5. Don't whine.
Unless you're over 21 and have a bunch of cheese around, don't whine. ;)
Kidding! But it is a pretty bad idea. Whiners aren't going to be part of the group... at least not at summer camp.
Rose
(How do I know? Honey, I work at one.)
(send me a private question... I don't want to reveal my location to the whole question answering group)
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thank you so so so much where do you work wich camp
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bio
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Hey Peoples...
I'm a Pennsylvania girl plopped right down in the middle of the nowhere, and hating it.
I sing, act, write, read way too much, and I love my girls.
Currently SiNgLe, but I want someone.
I give okay advice, but I won't bullshit to you. If I don't know, I'll tell you straight up. I'm NOT going to sugarcoat answers, and if you rate me down, whatevs. WHO CARES. I'm not here to be the most popular collumnist. I'm here to give advice.
On that note,
Lots of Love
Rose
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: I'm stuck here in Hicktown USA AIM: MSN: TsnowCwhiteH@hotmail.com Member Since: February 21, 2007 Answers: 169 Last Update: August 17, 2009 Visitors: 16903
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