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my mom and i used to get along but now not much at all. if we ever do talk we start yelling. she just has no idea about my life and if i try to tell her she just starts yelling if i say can i talk to you without yelling she says well your being a btch. now im just leaving her out and she just wont get over it so what ever i do what ever i try she gets mad and starts goin off on me. im the ?/goth im trying to get away from being gothic. my family mainly my mom and my cousins all hate it about me now. but i like being gothic i like the style i like the people it makes me feel better about myself. but im startin to try and go normal because what ever i do im wrong what ever i say or i do or who my friends are or what i wear or listen to or who i talk to or how i act its always wrong in her eyes. im always getting yelled at or grounded or with my friends. so i wana change because i think it might save me but i just like gothic its who i am its the only thing other than my gothic friends that make me happy. ive been trying to change my personality all for my mom and i get grounded what is wrong with my life. i get xtremely mad and just am starting to lash out but my family just says im grounded. grounding me every day at least a few times even though im already grounded. i hate my life i have no confidence i do nothing right ever in my hole life. but im afraid im gona run away(id rather) or kill myself. i will. my friends even are surprised im still living and still home. i only get to see them at school but thier my life. all my friends are deppressed but even with their problems they try to help me. i love them i will die if i lose any of them. ive already lost 3 bffs in my group to suicide and abuse. they think id be next they do every thing to keep me here and alive they say theyd all run away with me. i will soon. before i die. i get grounded so much in a day so i just stay in my room all day on my cell phone(my mom has no idea about)i got which i pay for through a friend. its either that so i can have one thing in my life or die. if any help im a fucked up catholic school girl thats just turned 13 and female. i need help in advice. how do i fix my life! how do i get my mom to shut up for a sec to even tell her anything! how am i still here whats even keeping me here! isnt it stupid to get grounded atleast 6 times a day even though im already grounded! my friends risk their lives to give me a chance in life over and over again daily what could i do for them. should i run away with my friends. and please help me with anything else i forgot and any toughts about my messed up life. (link)
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dont change your style because of your mom she doesnt understand and she probably never will.trust me ive been where you are now!you have friends that make you happy and your happy as a goth!dont let your mother control your life,i dont let mine.who cares if your mom says our a "reall btch" go up to her and say "ya well lifes a bitch yet so am i"be proud!
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any help for a binge eating disorder and maybey a tad bit of bulimia?? (link)
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eat,sleep,eat,....................eat more without making yourself throwing up.I also recomend to see the doctor.you could end up dieing so please do geth healthy.
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ughh im so pissed, my basketball team's whole season was totally defeated. and we were against a team today of people i knew from school so it was kinda sad too that we won and i owe my friend on that team 50 cents! (lol) i mean.. i play just for fun but idk.. like theres this guy who was at the game who sits next to me for like 2 classes and i dont wanna get embarrased over it. i mean why am i worrying so much some seasons are good and some arent. like for soccer the first time i played in the thingy we lost most of our games and then the next season we were totally undefeated and the same for the next............... stillll! i feel a little sad... we got the "participation medals" woot! [/sarcasm]
like its gonna be a little weird tomorrow.. like how do i really deal with it or just forget the fact that we lost and act like myself?? :( also other advice relating to this, and thnx.
ps= didnt know which category to put this in? (link)
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well i think you should just forget that you lost! You won a medal thats great just be proud that you played!
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Okay.
So I'm a very impatient lazy person. Good qualites I know.
Well recently I've put on a couple pounds, only a couple but I'm feeling a little less than fabulous.
So any ideas on things that i can do to drop the few FAST.
I'm 5'2, 125 btw. (link)
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do some exercises to lose the couple of pounds,and gain some muscles.It will make you look better and feel better oh and healther to!!!!^_^
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i check out the book "twilight" by stephenie meyer.. its about a girl falling in love with a vampire. if anyones read it that can help. i feel like i am inlove with edward. i know its weird but i get so happy when something good happens in the book and when something wrong happens it ruins my day. i feel like the life is sucked out of me when i am not reading it. whats wrong with me? (link)
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youre into the book,its becomeing your life, theres nothing wrong with that! The same thing happend to me when i read harry potter!in book five when sirius black died i cried(sorry if you havent read the book and i totally spoiled it)and i was upset for like 3 days!!
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okay..
i met a guy a couple years back we hungout a couple times two days in a row and i kept in touch thru the internet. BUT we haven't hungout only those two times a couple years ago..
he hated me and he was always rude over the internet. then i changed my look around and we hungout about a month ago. and he thought i was way cuter... i was like in love with him still from those couple years back.
we eventually had sex.. all of those memories just built up and i think that was for a reason.. he asked me out and hes a really nice guy. we have been together for about a month or two.
my question is should i breakup with him?
im afraid of falling for him harder and getting my heartbroken once again.. and im scared he still has feeling's for his ex's? i asked him about it and he was like crying because he thought i didn't trust him..
he told me he didn't have feelings for anyone but me.
should i be with him still?
im getting really attached.
i want to marry this kid.
16/f
and hes seventeen. (link)
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girl stay with him, if you love him!he sounds like he loves you to!if u dont, then welcome to hell!he'll find a new girl(probably a friend of yours)and she'll tell you everything that they do,yada yada yada,and you will feel extremely jealous!
it happened to me,dont let it happen to you!
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