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Hello :) My name is Jess and I'm 15 years old. I live in England and think it's pretty cool (apart from the weather!). I am really interested in Architecture and photography at the moment, and I hope to study Architecture at university. My friends and I have been through a lot recently which varies a lot so I hope I can really understand what most of you are going through. I definitely go for what I can when you ask a question, I just delve right in the deep end and tell you how it is. No babbling for ages, but straight down to the point. Don't be affraid to ask me anything, I'm here to help, not bite. :) x
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so, i have this guy friend. "jim" (;. we're like best friends, we hang outall the time. my best girl friend & his best guy friend are going out, so usually its the 4 of us. im very attracted to him physically, but i like his personality too, like when im sitting next to him all i want to do is kiss him, but i dont know how to let him know. he's never had a girlfriend, and hes prude, but hes definitely straight. i just dont know if it would be weird. but anyway, i just always want him to hold me, hes so strong, but like when he does touch me i get these little electric shockish things i guess you could say? like my heart skips a beat. i always want to hang out with him too, if we're all gonna hang out i always say "is jim gonna be there?" or "wheres jim?" .. do you think its love or lust?
Dear Love or Lust,
I think this 'Jim' guy sounds nice and it's great that you two are good friends because some girls find it hard to talk to guys. Lol.
I think you have a question to ask yourself:
'Do you really want to be with him, kissing him and whether you Love him.' If the answers are yes, then it's deffinatly Love.
In this case you will have to talk to him personaly face-to-face to tell him the proper truth. Or you could try and find out whether he likes you back the same way (mabe through your best friend and her boyfriend).
If you have any more queries please don't hesitate to post a question in my Inbox. 9/10 i'll reply ASAP.
From, SuperDuperJess. x
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thank you [: that's really great advice! ill always ask myself those questions now =)
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