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Me 13/female Guy 15/male
Lets just call this guy billy
Okay so today i gave my boyfriend a blowjob. first of all ive never even given him a handjob, we just kinda skipped that. im only 13, and i amm kinda worried i shouldnt have done that, am i too young?
about the other thing you asked me , i think that as long as you feel mature enough to not just to do it , but to accept the possible consecuences, for example im 18 now and I had the oportunity to do it before when i thought I was so in love with my boyfriend. then it didn't last and we broke up and I think about how much I would regreat it , but everyones different , i think that as long as your sure enough you love him enough to take the risk. then ok go ahead. cause you have to be concious that theres no 100% protection agains pregnancy, i suggest that you wait a little longer, in my opinion a year would be good i mean that you've been together for a year , or six months .cause that way you'll be sure your doing this cause your in love, and not just becaause you think your in love but in fact it might be infatuation (because you've dated maybe a short period of time like 1 month 2 ..)also you both have to be concious that you can get pregnant (one of my bff always use protection and sometimes couples are trapped into sex, like they do it so often and become very posesive)(have you heard about the fact that sex can change a realtionship, well its because of that ) anyway she got pregnant but shes now 18 and is going to have her baby and just take a brake from school, so take this into consideration...
im not going to tell you that go and tell your parents about what your intending to do,cause some parents will say sometihng like your not in love dont do it or religion whatever, it depends on your relationship with your parents, if you have a good relationship with them, you might wanna try to tell them, not like asking permision or anything just saying that your aware of the consecuences and you both have talked about it and good with it )of course they might say that your too young , cause personally i think you are, but i dont think that what i say will make you change your mind and i'm not trying to , I just wouldn't want you to regreat something in the future :) just give it a second though and yes if they found out , theres no other way than telling your parents that you've been safe about it and that he didn't force you (cause parents usually think that the guy influences the ggirl, when in fact she wanted to do it also) this way they wont be like angry or feeling unconfortable about your boyfriend although it might be at the beggining . just be safe and give it a second thought and get as much infromation as you can about protection cause at 13 you might think you know everytihng and sometimes you realize you didn't . my suggestion is to go to a ginecologist and ask for the pill (becuase of the fact that its better than condom agains pregnancy)but also you HAVE to consider that you have to be informed about what can happen if you take it , cause I've known that in the long term it can cause problems for people who want to get pregnant when they are older, im not pretty sure about the consequences if someone of your age use it ..think about it :) if you need anything else feel free to ask =)
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thanks. and your right. i thought about the fact that i skipped handjob and went right to blowjob. and i want to have sex with him. not because i want to have sex in general, but because i really love him. and i know sex isnt the answer to being even closer, but does it matter what age you to have sex as long as your using protection and your sure about it?? Ive talked to him about it and we have both given our opinions..and we talked about protection too..if i wasnt worrying about the fact that im 13, and what would happen if anyone else found out it would be so much easier.
got any advice for that?
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