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Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??
I dont know. I just feel out. (link)
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hello i am 15 too and yes i know exactly what you are going thourgh and to tell you if i were you if you do get a boyfriend dont wait 6 months in the relationship thinking your both madly inlove wait a year im telling you its the best time to wait. 15 is a border line ready not ready to young its confusing and if you just go ahead and have sex it can change your mind about things drastically not just little and if you do use a condom it doesnt mean your 100% safe from becoming pregnate. the purepressure thing sucks to the limit of all about being a teen and the only way to live above the purepressure is to do what you think is really rite and waiting 3 months into the relationship to have sex or give head in my oppinion is not ok. it would take me at least a year i would want to reallly know the guy it would be better if the guy was your friend for a year or two then you guys went out for like a year and had sex. emotionally you are not ready i can tell already and maybe not even physically. so waiting is a key thing to do and it doesnt matter if everyoen has a boyfriend you dont have to be like everyone and having a boyfriend or girlfriend is so hard you always have to talk to them theres the gifts worrying if they like somone else if they are cheating on you why are they acting differnt all of a sudden so really think about it if your going to have sex or do anything to do with sex. be safe get the rite guy or girl. but i really hope your going to take my advice and wait and dont think about it if somoenes telling you to just do it they are deffinalty not someone your going to want to hang out with or you know. follow your own path.!
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Thank you. It really help to get an opinion from someone my age.
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