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Q: Ok.
I was dating this guy and i REALLY REALLY liked him. He was 4 years older than me and I liked him more than any other guy ive dated. Well, he entered the army so we broke up because he didnt think it was fair if I dated him because he would never be there for me. But when he left to go to the basic training we continued to write to each other and talked about getting back together. However, one day i check my myspace to see him say that there is a guy friend of his at basics and that he is interested in me. He also said that this guy was inexperienced and was country (which i like). I cant tell if he is just testing me or if he is trying to get me to move on. Please help me out with this!!!
He comes home on December 13th and i need to have my mind made up what im going to do regaurdless of the situation...
thanks so much!!
XOXO
madison
hello darling,
you can never know. since you have never met "this guy." then you never know if they are lying to you or not. you have to trust the guy you dated because he shouldnt even think of lying to you. go with your gut.
-violet shroom

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VIOLETshroom
Hello boys and girls,
My name is Violet Shroom and I am 75 years old. I live in California along with my 3 cats. I have 4 children and 7 grandchildren. I won't name them because that would take forever. I have a cell phone which is unbelievable for my age group, but it's the only way to get ahold of my children and grandchildren nowadays. I want to help the new generation of youngsters on this website so ask me a question and I will try to help my best. I have a boyfriend named, Franklin, and it's getting pretty serious. I don't want to be married at this age though because I won't be alive forever. I do have a will which is pretty amazing if I do say so myself. I guess I will go now. Tata.

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