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Q: Hey!, I'm Ashley. I'm 16.
i've known my this boy Henry for almost three years. He is friends with some of my best guy friends. We flirted on and off for about two years but never went out because we hardly saw each other. This past summer Henry started hanging out with my neighbor and best friend Ryan who i've known my entire life. This put him closer and we saw each other more and more. Then he asked me out and we were dating for two and a half months. we recently took a break but now we both want to get back together but Ryan now likes me as more than a friend and is jealous of Henry. When ever he can he tries to separate us, and tells me lies about Henry. He advises me not to take him back. I only see Ryan as a friend so I don't have feelings for him but I don't want to lose him either. I feel that he will get very angry is Henry and I start up again as a couple. I don't know what to do.. advice please? :)

thanks so much-
Ashley
hello darling,
i think that on this one you really should just follow your hear. just explain to ryan that you see him as more of a brother and not a boy friend. if he really cares about your friendship then he'll understand. but if you getting back together with henry would ruin your friendship with ryan you might wanna think about it. which is worth more. a boyfriend or a friendship? but i think if ryan is really your friend and cares about you, he'll totally understand.
-violet shroom

thanks alot :) ! ur a biggg help

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VIOLETshroom
Hello boys and girls,
My name is Violet Shroom and I am 75 years old. I live in California along with my 3 cats. I have 4 children and 7 grandchildren. I won't name them because that would take forever. I have a cell phone which is unbelievable for my age group, but it's the only way to get ahold of my children and grandchildren nowadays. I want to help the new generation of youngsters on this website so ask me a question and I will try to help my best. I have a boyfriend named, Franklin, and it's getting pretty serious. I don't want to be married at this age though because I won't be alive forever. I do have a will which is pretty amazing if I do say so myself. I guess I will go now. Tata.

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