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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.
Hey AJ, thanks for posting in my inbox!
Okay, well you said you werent gay, but could you maybe be bisexual? Also, you are at "that age" where you might be "curious"...if you know what I mean. It might just be a phase. If you are bi, there is nothing to be ashamed of. I personally have a (female) bi friend and when she told me, she asked if i was freaked out. I said no, which was honest. She told me how a lot of her friends turned on her when she told them, probably because they were afraid she had a crush on them. BUT ANYWAYS, back to you. There is a possibility you are bi.
Okay, how to talk to him more. If you are in the same classes, ask him about homework, a test, or anything school related. If a conversation doesnt really kick off from that, dont hang around trying out different subjects all at the same time, its a little weird/clingy, if you know what i mean. Next time, ask him what he did over the weekend. Ask him if hes busy and wants to play basketball, or go to the movies with a bunch of friends, or whatever you or he likes to do in your (or his) spare time.
TO get him to talk about himself personally- just ask! dont be shy. You can say anything. Ask him if hes trying out for, well this might be a little late, but basketball or track or whatever other sports your school offers. Ask him if hes trying out for the school play. Ask him what hes doing over the summer. Things like that can spark good conversation.
I dont know if i helped you, but if you need more advice, let me know, or email me xasktiffany@yahoo.com
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(Rating: 5) thanks. :)