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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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My birthday is coming up soon, i am turning 13 adn am having 30 some girls sleep over at the local sports complex..it should be a balst but there is this one friend who is nice but she ditched me and my other firneds for more popular ones we had this huge fight for 2 years now were finally made up but then last night we kinda you know butted heades again but now were cool.....do you think i should invite her to my birthday party? shes really controlling but is SO nice, but sometimes we just dont get along and its definitly not like old timeswe dont sit with eachother at lunch or anything. should i invite her?
Whatever your decision is after reading this, keep this in mind.
"Sometimes you just have to forget what
you want, & remember what you deserve."
Personally, I think it`s really stupid when people ditch real friends to have a bunch of fake "popular" ones, so I`m sorry you had to go through that. Even though you probably want her to come, you don`t need someone to control you. You don`t want one person to mess up the whole party & if you think there`s even the slightest possibility of that happening, don`t invite her to ruin your night.
Although if you think it would bring you two closer together, go for it. Just try not to mention anything that could make her even a little bit mad if you decide to invite her, because that could easily start a fight between the two of you & ruin the party. & if something happens where she mentions something & it makes you mad or bothers you, just try to ignore it & stay away from her the rest of the night.
It really just depends on what you think is more important. =]
Goodluck!
(Rating: 5) i think that is the best advice out of all of them....thank you so much..im not going to invite her she is very immature and can get pretty mean...thanks so much for your advice!