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My name is Juliathings change. sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. that's how life is. i'm almost 16 and i make mistakes just like any other person. i'm far from perfect. i love to act, sing, dance and do anything involved with the arts. i really want to learn to play the guitar and i plan to learn. i play tennis but it's only to pass the time. i write poetry and lately i've been reading alot. i'm really goofy and i like to make people smile and i love to laugh. i don't trust that easily and i love even lighter. i don't believe that anyone is better than anyone. i've been going through a tough time lately and i've been confused about alot. i have my best friends and besides them i don't care what other people think. i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him. we can get through anything. i don't hate. sometimes love. and always smile. don't judge me before you get to know me. i'm loud and will make you laugh.
I also love to give and get advice. I believe that people should come together and help you to get by. But always remmeber, advice is help. You are the only one that can make a final desision. I would love to help you with anything as long as you respect me and I'll return the same respect.
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Hey. well, the last night i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and we decided to hang out tomorrow (November 14th.) and he asked me to go uptown with him, and then back to his house.
I really, really want to becuase I really like him alot. The thing is, i'm not gunna lie, i have no experience.
Chances are going to his house will lead to stuff like him fingering me adn stuff.
I know this is really embarassing and gross and stuff but like i don't know what to do while he does it.
i mean like, is he gunna leave my pants on and just go down them, or take them completely off? and when he's fingering me do i look at him?! or do i like makeout with him while he's doing it?!
i need help becuase i really like him and want this to go smoothly, i don';t want to embarass myself. please help, i do rate.
Hey. I think I can help you with this one.
If you really like him, then you obvioulsy have no problem with moving forward. Just please bofre you do anything, make sure that you're comfortable and ready to take that next step with him.
If it gets to the point he he does finger you, if your along he'll probably start by just going down them a little. Eventually he'll probably pull them all the way down and he'll do it that way. (It's easier for both of you).
Fingering DOES hurt at first. It's nothing to be scared of. Eventually it will start to hurt less and feel better.
As for ig you should look at him, he probably won't be look back at you. He'll be focased on other things. If he's true to you he'll look up and make sure that you're ok. If he's close enough you should makeout with him. Also, to let him know that it feels good when it does, grab his face and makeout with him because then he knows how you like it.
Also remember to no let him pressure you into doing anything that you may not want to do. If you're really not ready for him to do that, tell him. Also, if he feels that becuase he did this for you, you should repay him, you might want to rethnik your feelings for him. Make sure he's into you and not into what you can do for him.
I hope I could help
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(Rating: 5) Okay, sounds good. Thanks so much.