hey everyone!im kayy,im always here to help.i love giving advice and one day i hope to be a therapist or something like that :]ive been thru alott and pretty much know what im dealing with. i couldnt live without my friends.music is liife. need help?!feel free to ask
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HI!! umm..okay i used to like this guy named drew and i told him and he says he just wants to be friends..so now we're friends and i think that im pretty much bordering the over him line..when i told my friend ariel that she said that she is "fallin" for him...and i am seriously not okay with that and i let her no but she dont care..she told me that at the vandy and uk game he winked at her, but i have had guys wink at me and they didnt like me...i dont know if he likes her, i dont want to think that...its not fair, the one with the guts to say something about it doesnt get him but the one that sits back and does nothing probably wins...plus isnt there some rule or law saying that a best friend shouldnt date a crush,ex, or any thing like that...she says that she dont think he likes me and that he likes her more, and they went on a trip with a club, i was gonna go but i couldnt, and suposedly they hung out and got to know one another better, i dont know what to believe...so summary...
1)does he like her you think??
2)do you think its right that she likes him??
3)what should i do??
4)do you think she is saying all of that just to make me jealous?? (link)
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i understand what your saying when your practically over him but you dont want her to like him..you still have some feelings for him and your not really ready yet to let your friend like him.thats understandable.
ok im starting with your 4th question first.
to me it definitely sounds like shes trying to make you jealous or mad.ive had this happen to my friends before..it really just sounds like shes trying to get you to give up on drew all together.she obviously doesnt want you to like him or even think about him like that. but idk why..maybe shes worried that he could start to like you.
1)its hard to tell if he likes her or not.like just cause a guy winks,doesnt mean he likes her, ive had guys wink at me before but they didnt have a crush on me.sometimes it just means they want some from you..but that isnt always the case.be careful because she may be over exxagerating things to make it sound like hes into her when he might not be..he might just see her as a friend.
2)i dont think its "wrong" of her to like him..cause you cant help who you like..like thats uncontrollable.but it was wrong of her to tell you all of those things the way she did..it sounds like shes trying to make you mad and that definitely isnt cool.
3)talk to her about it.tell her how your feeling. it might be hard but you have to let her know..if she really is your friend she'll listen to what you have to say..in return you should also listen to her.
good luck! =]
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