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HEY EVERYONE! MY NAMES CHANTAL. I'M HERE TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS THAT YOU ALL HAVE. I'M NOT AN EXPERT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT AND DON'T CLAIM TO BE. I AM ON THE OTHER HAND WILLING TO GIVE YOU MY PERSONAL OPINION TO YOUR QUESTIONS. = ]
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we are totally in love. He's 17 and is still a virgin because he wanted to wait for a girl who's still a virgin also and has all the other qualities he wants(which is me). In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he would never ask for sex but things are changing now. He'll be 18 this month and he wants us to have sex on his birthday. At first i was fine with it because there was no way that either of us would catch anything since we've never done anything. But I've realized that I want to wait until marriage and he is kind of mad but tries to hide it. He said that he still loves me and nothing will change. But i know he is extremely disappointed. I want our relationship to be awesome without sex. so I just dont know what to do....any advice would be helpful
Ok,this is the way I look at it if he really does loves you then he will wait until you are comfortable and ready. Sex is not love, therefore you do not need sex in a relationship in order for it to be real love. Do not get pressured or talked into doing something that you are unsure about. For one, you probably will regret it, if you go into something with doubt it usulaly doesn't turn out too good. Whenever you have sex you have a chance of getting pregnant. There is no birth control out there or condum that says you are 100 percent safe. Although they do help a great matter and I highly sugges you use them when you are ready for sex. Just keep the facts in mind, ok hun. Don't let him tell you when your ready or when he wants it. Whether it be that you do decide to have sex or not, think for yourself and nobody but you can make such a huge decission.
The best of luck to you!
(Rating: 4) Thank you so much for the advice! But it would be even better if you gave me a personal experience. Have you had sex? if so, do you regret it?