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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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well someone left a really mean message on my myspace (on a little notepad thing, so I don't know who it's from). it said "you're an ugly stupid hoe. jk girl i love you! or at least, i have to pretend i do!"
well, i'm definitely not stupid or a hoe, and i don't think i'm ugly. so i know i shouldnt let this bother me, but i've felt like crying ever since i saw it. and i cant stop wondering who wrote it. one of my "friends?" someone i don't really know? and why would they write that? i'm not mean or stuck up... i'm always really nice to everyone! my mom says someone is just jealous of me, but that doesn't make me feel any better. it just really hurts to know that someone secretly hates me. how can i stop feeling so bad about this?
Ugh, people think they can say whatever their little heart desires just because their protected by a computer. They think that they can be as mean as they want, as long as they`re friends go along with it. Just ignore it. Trust me, I used to get so mad when people told me to do that. But honestly, it takes a long time to realize this. The nicer you are, the meaner some people will be to you. Some people are just that way. It`s not that you`ve done anything wrong -- they are just extremely insecure or extremely jealous. Chances are, you`re not ugly. People call people ugly & fat just because they`re uncreative & stupid, so it`s the first thing that comes to their mind. And trust me, it is NOT true.
If you really wanna find out who it is...
If that was exactly the way it was typed, think of someone who types like that. Like who says jk instead of just kidding, who doesn`t capitalize stuff, who cusses, etc.
The way most of the gossip, drama, etc. is started is simply by jealousy. Just remember that.
Go to the mall.
Go to the movies.
Best things to take your mind off of anything!
=D
Good luck!
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