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Hi! I told my bgf that i love him but not in love with him and not exaclty romantically but we were talking alone. I had hugged him bye and then was like wait 1 more thing and then i said I love you but im not IN love with you..." He was just like ok during this my hand was gently in his not exaclty holding hands but i had my hand in his which was cupped and i hugged him again and left. The other thing is we're not exactly friends w/benefits but he can't date until his next birthday (may!) and I don't even know if I want to date him (but prob. will) and we've kissed and I feel totally confortable with him. I dont know if everyone gets that but like when he held my hand i didnt even realize it. And he flirts with me sometimes overly and we flirt in general. The thing is when I told him that he didnt really respond. We've still kinda talked and it wasnt like awkward or anything but i dont know. I pretty much know he does too even if he doesnt tell me because i mean more like in a close friend way not marry me or anything like that haha. I really want to talk to him about it but i dont know how to bring it up and do you think thats a normal way for him to respond to it? Also do you think hes thinking about it or was just like ok whatever? i think he probably is thinking about it but i want others opinions. Lots of them lol :D hanks so much and I will rate all helpful posts!!! (link)
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well when you tell people that you love them they don't respond because it was a surprize to them but he probally loves you back. He probally did think about it because it is something that took him to a surprize or shocked him. If he likes you and wants to be your gf then everything is all right. If you want to talk about it you just need to go out and say it. i mean at some point, if you eer get in a relation ship, even if you r not, you should always tell the truth and don't hold back. Just ask him say like, the otehr day when i told u that i loved you, i meant it in a friendly way, sry if i scared you. or say somthing like that, i mean, if he feels the same way then he will say i love you back, and if he doesn't then he eaither isn't ready for that commitment to say that or he just doesn't love you, sry that that sounds mean, but it is probally the truth. So just talk to him and be truthful and you will probally get the answers that u r looking for. good luck and have fun.
~sealgirl~
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Thank you so much! That's really good advice and I understand exactly what your saying!
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